I always ask out my crush, (different crushes at different times) every girl says no because I'm too sweet. Every girl that I crushed on in the past, Id flirt with her, send flower emojis, I've said things to them where theyve responded w/ "aww thats so sweet" or "awww thank you" stuff like that but I notice that girls tend to like bad boys, I never change myself to make my crush like me but I still get rejected for being myself "sweet" am I a fuckboy?
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Generally, when someone says a person is "too sweet" or "too nice" it's code for saying, "You're a nice person and all, but something about you (not the niceness) doesn't work for me."
Flower emojis (or real flowers) and compliments are nice, but they very real. Do you ever get real with people? Does anyone know much about your interests and personality? Do you really know the girls you crush on well, or are you just trying to win over pretty faces? This is where a lot of nice people can go wrong - they get crushes on people and then build them up without any genuine connection or much knowledge about each other. They hide themselves behind a flurry of gestures hoping to build up "love tokens" so to speak. But love doesn't work that way - it's about more than exchanging pleasantries.
I don't know you, of course, but this is one of the most common things that "nice" girls and guys do wrong.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE