Most Helpful Guy
At 55 , been in 2 live in relationships and I know I want a relationship and not be alone forever , I struggle at managing the frustrations or patience needed to accept non perfect relationship or even to drive it into my head of beauty and desirability of imperfect people , just like I am. The problem has been some bad luck in meeting the wrong people and also passing by women that might have been a great match for me. Focusing on characteristics that are useless to find a life long partner. Now I know, behave and have a different perspective on it , but dating and finding love seems more and more difficult and unlikely , but I'm still hoping
Most Helpful Girl
Yep, cause I only seem to be attracted to guys who are out of my league and not interested in me, then I start worrying that I'm far uglier / less attractive than i'd originally thought and before I know it I've talked myself out of even trying to date cause I'm not good enough for anyone! And that's why I've been single for over 5 years and it doesn't seem to be changing 😢 plus no one wants someone who's got my kind of mentality! Argh.