So my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months. We haven't said I love you yet but over the past weekend we both told each other that were falling in love with each other.. Is it a big deal that neither of us have said I love you to each other? I'm scared to telll him because if he doesn't say it back it will hurt.. He has been hurt before and I dont know if its because he's scared or what..
But I feel like the love might be there.. he's said before "oh you love me" but i just kinda played it off and laughed while rolling my eyes.
Most Helpful Guy
The fact that he's been hurt before is probably the reason why he hasn't said it yet or why he's holding back a little. Either way, just be patient with him and sooner or later you'll be able to say these things naturally. Good luck1
Most Helpful Girl
For someone to say they're falling in love with you is a big step already, if he's been hurt before he may be scared that you may leave him after he opens up, give him time, love can't be rushed, he will say it even when he least expects it, just be patient that's how relationships last a lifetime1
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