Like when a guy approaches you do you just assume he is bad because he doesn't fit your outragous "standards". I am so sorry not all men have six pack abs and play hip hop loudly from their cars and sag their pants and act like "gangsters".
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I feel like a lot of people misunderstand the word shallow.
Wanting someone who has a six pack, is a douche bag, is abusive toward women, is unfaithful, sags their pants, listens to hip hop, and acts like gangsters is not shallow.
That's just a really shitty preference.
What actually is shallow is when you base someone's personality on how they look.
For example; Assuming that every guy who has a six pack and listens to hip hop enjoys abusing women, being unfaithful, and acting like a gangster.