Most Helpful Girl
Well, I am a firm believer in the idea that nothing can turn someone into something. Meaning, no heartbreak or terrible experience caused your girlfriend to be a promiscuous woman she was always one on the inside. I don't believe things turn you into anything it just takes the right situation to bring it out of you. Right now she has probably put a lot of faith and trust in you when you told her you didn't care and honestly if you leave her it might break her heart and she'll do those things again and blame it on the break up when in actuality that's the person she is. If she wants to share her past with you then maybe you should listen but if that's not something you can get over maybe you don't care about her the way you'd like to. It seems like this will be a big problem for you guys and may cause a breakup. If you want a girl with less sexual history then you have every right to find one. Maybe the two of you aren't right for each other.
Most Helpful Guy
Tell her this "I can be your boyfriend, or I can be your therapist... but I can't be both."
Accepting her does not require you to have detailed knowledge of every element of her past. If she persists in telling you everything, she risks adding the loss of your relationship to the baggage she carries.
She should nor have to be alone in fighting her demons BUT the person who hears her story CAN'T be you.
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