He was talking about how he wants her to be truly happy and how close they have gotten these past few weeks. He hopes she feels the same as he does about these past few weeks. He understands that she wants to give it a chance with me and respects that.
I haven't told her that I know any of this stuff, I kinda supectted something was going on with him and her becuase, I caught her in a lie ( I didn't call her out on it) and she was also telling me a lot abiut him and stuff.
What do you think I should do? Was it wrong of me to go threw her phone?
Most Helpful Girl
I like to think a lot more deeper than people usually do.
Snooping is disrespectful. However the only thing that matters (to me) are your intentions. Did you:
1) Look into her phone trying because you're suspicious (or)
2) Found out about the guy because you just unintentionally saw it
If you're purposely snooping, it already means both of you have no trust in your relationship. And that's already a failing relationship. If you *really* just stumbled across her messages with the other guy, then she's a bit more wrong here since she has a foot on the path to cheating (or maybe she'll break up with you first then get with him, either way it's fucked up)
So to answer your question, it's wrong if you were legitimately snooping with the intention to catch her.
And in my opinion, if it's already at this point, it's really just downhill from here, but of course it's possible to repair and replenish a dying relationship. Trust and communication are key ingredients.
I actually think that you shouldn't try to replenish a dying relationship because you guys got there in the first place. Then again, relationships can have their ups and downs and I'm not you, I don't know the whole situation, so you do you, buddy.
Most Helpful Guy
You messed up snooping through her phone... however she fucked up even more... save yourself from hurt and break up through text... I understand its low but at this point you can't handle it.