Mothers day is coming up in a couple weeks where im from. I asked my boyfriend who i have been with for 3 years if we could do a joint gift for his mom for mothers day since we are pretty close. He said he rather do a joint gift from him and his siblings. I was very hurt why my own boyfriend didn't want me includes in the gift. If anything him and his siblings would have to chip im even less because another person is going in on the gift. Im hurt that he doesn't see me as important enough after 3 years to include me on the gift. How should i approach him about my hurt feelings?