Most Helpful Guy
If you have just been talking, as opposed to dating, it's probably not the time to be talking about a committed relationship. If you have been dating for a few months and he still doesn't want to commit, you're probably wasting your time.
"He actually did just get out of a not so great relationship before summer."
That doesn't matter. He doesn't have the right to punish you for the misdeeds of other people. If you're the right woman for him, he'll look past things like that.
Most Helpful Girl
He is afraid to have a relationship, because of the last one