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He's just trying to keep you there without having to commit to you. I spent 7 months with a guy like that and he eventually broke my heart. I do not recommend to stick around when a guy has said he isn't interested in a relationship. Mostly it ends up bad because you develop expectations and it hurts. I doubt he is playing you. He's just keeping his options open and wants to have the freedom the mess around with who ever he wants when he wants. I would never tolerate that behavior again after my last experience. A guy should know if he wants you or not and when he does it should be normal for him to want to commit.