Guys I was out for a coffee with my crush and he seemed really nervous. So I mentioned that I went on holiday to Spain, and his contribution to the conversation was 'oh I know a girl in Spain and she says she wants to wait for me and marry me. I actually have a few girls that want to marry me. but I don't want to get married'
Why would he say that? Is he worried that I want to marry him too? We haven't even kissed lol
was he just nervous?
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1. The answer to your question here is a double edged sword. The meaning could be any of these
1.1. What he says is a fact (I know cause I have tons of such girls and situation - believe me though for other guys it's an awesome thing, it makes life miserable for the guy at the epicenter)
1.2. He's playing around just to impress that he wants a relationship and / or sex but not marriage
1.3. He's testing the waters for your reaction to such a statement
1.4. He has self esteem issues (that may not be visible to generic public and friends) hence is trying to boost himself up cause he's nervous0