Most Helpful Girl
For me, it's about the eyes and smile. Having nice facial features is more attractive than size... height or anywhere else. I've dated guys 5'5" and up. I can only use actors as references, but it's not about the money, since I can make enough for two people. I find these guys attractive:
Daniel Radcliffe - 5'6". I would love to date him in a heartbeat.
Hiroyuki Sanada - 5'7". He looked so good in the Last Samurai.
James McAvoy - 5'7". This suave attractive Scotsman right here.
Elijah Wood - 5'6". I used to have a crush on him when I was younger, and love his big blue eyes.
Joe Dempsie - 5'7". Saw him on Game of Thrones and thought he was cute.
Tom Cruise - 5'7". Say what you will about him, I don't care for what he does in his personal life, but he is a great actor and I think he's attractive.
Most Helpful Guy
This is my list that works
-Stay in shape
-Have tight social skills
-If you see a girl you like DON'T befriend her. Give signals to her you want to bang her. (You said you didn't want t settle.)
-Get a hair cut that goes well with your head
-Learn to stand correctly and walk right. Many men don't learn the correct way of walking.
-Find a hobby that takes your mind off of negativity.
-Accept that other men WILL start with you for being a short guy. The key to beating them is NOT fist fighting them. Dominant men can destroy another guy with words.
-Take lead..."We are going to such and such". Don't say "Would you like to go to such and such".
This is a lot better than all those guys and girls saying "Just be confident". Truth be told confidence is work for us men.