How long before I contact him, if I do?
This guy at work (let's call him jake) who is extremely out going &kind of full of himself has asked me out multiple times & asked me why I won't go on a date with him & I've always told him I don't date my coworkers bc its inappropriate. I always wondered in the back of my mind if he was messing with me bc he would tell other guys (in front of me) how I would always reject him & laugh it off. One day came to me telling me he was soon leaving, meaning we wouldn't be coworkers anymore & asked me again & I just laughed. Then 2 months later he's back & continues to flirt but doesn't ask me out anymore just makes comments like "yeah you just like to keep people waiting" but he never is rude about it he just laughs it off. There's been rumors about another coworker (joe) & I dating bc we went out. We keep having to tell people we aren't dating & blah blah but everyone keeps teasing us & so does jake. We were talking about it today & jake starts telling Joe about how he's asked me out a few times & I won't go out with him. We keep talking & joking around, getting along for the first time without me annoyed bc he keeps asking why why &why! He starts telling me again that he'll be leaving in two weeks & won't be coming back & I joke that he better not bc if we dated itd be annoying to see him at work too. At the end of the night when I'm saying bye to everyone he reminds me that he'll be leaving in two weeks &pulls out a folded up piece of paper& hands it to me, he said something else but I zoned out wondering whether I should be the cold bitch I usually am & not take it or take it & not know what to do after. So I took the paper & we both laughed & I just held it in my hand for a bit not paying much attention &when I got to my car, doubting whether he really wrote his number in it or not, I check & his. number is really there lol so now I dont know if I should text him or not. I always thought he was stuck up but the other guys say he's really nice & dont agree w what I think
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