No you don't. Multitasking is a myth.
Girls are difficult because they want for selfish purposes. That is all. Only very few of them are noble enough to be simple with men. 😊
@rafael59000 not exactly! We are scientifically (and if you're religious) biblically proven that guys cannot understand women! That is why men need guy friends and it is essential for women to have their girlfriends! Girls want to be loved and treated like princesses, where as men are built to be respected and the head of the house! If neither are being fulfilled, then the girl starts lashing out and being mean and degrading! It's a never ending cycle! But if men are respected, they will most likely treat women better and they will be nicer! I've been having several conversations about this with my parents and my boyfriend, at different times when no one else is there to hear the conversation, and they all have given the same answer!
All women are equally picky as fuck.
You must be on a whole other planet brother lol
he must be on a whole different planet when he said all women are picky? :D
You being difficult just proves the Asker correct.
@Rafael59000 what exactly? How was she being difficult? LMAO!!!
@Onlyinit4fun If women are by far more picky then men, why they don't just approach the guy they want. In this circumstance, it is very unlikely she would be unsuccessful, unless she is really ugly, or the guy is that rare kind of popular. If the guy showed be an idiot, so the girl can easily try another one in a very short period of time.In other hand, the reality is obvious: in general, it is by far more easy for a straight girl find sex or date than it is for the straight guys. This tells everything. ☹
"Important life-long skill"... What arrogant...
@Rafael59000 how exactly was she being difficult? I didn't ask your opinion on 'who has it easier in the dating scene' and that answer is easy. Attractive people (men and women) with great outgoing personalities have it easy in the dating scene.
@Onlyinit4fun Look at her arrogance. When she says that the men need to develop "important live-long skill" to understand women, she also says that men are obligated to understand women, and the women have no obligation to make themselves more simple understandable by the men, to be more kind with them.So I give one example: I know girls that have better men then others women more attractive than them just because they made themselves more simple to be understand by the men, while the more attractive girls don't do it...You're also complicated. How could you denied the reality that, in general, it is much more difficult for a man to find sex and a date then it is for a girl? Maybe just 5% of guys are attractive enough to have the same facilities a woman could normally have on it...
lol right? some guys at this site just cracks me up! :''''P
The large majority is difficult for sure... It is bad for everyone, even for the women... Seriously, I think it is necessary to create school classes for boys about how to deal with women/girls in all aspects of live.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gIuotFZnBtk let me play the worlds smallest violin for you dude. rip to all fuckboys including you.
Their perspective sucks
No, it seems that way only because you don't see it :PIt makes perfect sense, they are just people after all!
They are complicated for sure. Good luck for you being able to deal well with it.
@Rafael59000 everyone is complicated past a certain point
aren't that difficult*
Almost all them are really difficult.
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Are you blind? A woman doesn't know why? Just look how the majority of men/boys act with women/girls in the many aspects of life, than compare it with how the majority of the women/girls act with the guys/boys in the same situations, how they think in that situations, and finally you will be able to see, to understand why. 😊
It is more easy to say for a straight guys: "So leave forever alone, looser!Wow... How mean!And the men are the oppressors ones...
"It is more easy to say for the straight guys: 'So live forever alone, losers!'"
@Rafael59000I don't know what the fuck you're saying but I was barely being serious so if you could not get worked up, that'd be nice.
Oh... If only that was the problem...
@Rafael59000 Okay. What exactly is the problem then? The op really didn't make it clear.
In most of times when a girl finally likes a guy, she wants he conducing alone all the first talk between them. She doesn't do any effort to use that talk to know him better. She let the all effort on his shoulders. When the guy is not good on it, they simply reject him, even when know almost nothing about him.Other thing is that almost all the girls don't forgive the guy that approaches them too nervous. Basically they hate shy guys approaching them.Too picky...Sometimes girls reject guys humiliating him in the process, especially in front of other people.Now, in many occasions, a girl successfully approaches a guy just saying to him a very shy and nervous "Hi"...
@Rafael59000 How can you like a guy without knowing anything about him? That doesn't make any sense to me. I don't see how wanting someone who is confident considered being picky but okay.
Exactly, how could you know a guy if you don't even do any effort to know the guy you already talking with?Liking someone confident in approaching a girl... That is all you want on a guy, that he should be confident in approaching a girl? After all, this ability will be useful for what in an eventual relationship, friendship or even for sex?Cannot that guy be confident in other more valuable aspects of his life, as, for example, in his career, protecting his beloved ones? Cannot that guy have many of or all the necessary characteristics to be a excellent boyfriend or a good sex partner for you, or even a really good friend with benefits? Cannot that guy be the kindest man with a woman when the girl make he feels confortable with her?Throwing away guys just because they don't know (or can't) approach girls... Well, the life is yours.
@Rafael59000 When it comes to relationships I personally would want to just be friends with a guy first before one asks out the other. I don't think asking out strangers is a good idea but that's just my opinion. I'm just saying that first impressions whether you like it or not make a huge impact on a person's decision. It's not that complicated. It doesn't just happen in the dating world. It happens in the workplace as well.
It does happen in date world, with smart women. Your problem is that you prefer being alone to doing any effort to know or approach a guy. That is all.
@Rafael59000 Plenty of smart, successful women choose the single life so I'm not sure what you're trying to get at. How is that a problem? If the cons outweigh the pros why do it?
Even that smart girls choose shy guys sometimes too.I see your point, but there is at least one major pros in going after guys: you would, for sure, skyrocket your chances to find guys you would really like, that would be really perfect for you, lady.Considering you're picky and the large majority of the boys aren't...Illustrating: now, you are letting yourself earning clothes just as presents inside packages in time to time. Most of that clothes you don't like and throw them away, many times without sighting the clothes completely out of its packages. Just a small amount of that clothes you like and you keep them, although they aren't that perfect on you. Considering you "can", wouldn't it be much more satisfying for you going yourself to the stores looking for the best clothes, try them and finally achieve the ones that look really perfect on you? 😊
@Rafael59000 I prefer the whole lets be friends kind of thing before dating. That's how I want to do it. If they can't handle being just my friend they can't handle dating me. If I go on a date with someone that means I'm sure I want a long term relationship with that person.
Make friends is ok for you. You shouldn't change it. But I was not talking about it, lady...
@Rafael59000 If a stranger asks me out on date date I'd tell them I'd rather get to know him as a friend first.
It is more than ok for you. But, again, I wasn't talk about it, lady.Just forget it so...
@Rafael59000 What are you talking about then?
Read carefully, and you will find out, smart lady.
@Rafael59000 I did. I'm talking about dating. I get to know a guy by being friends with him first not by dating him. I already know that there is more than meets the eye but in the fast paced world that we live in not everybody is going to see that. That thing about confidence was about girls in general. Not specifically me. It still doesn't make a girl picky though.
Good for you, lady. 😊
Good for the women so. Bad for us for you being unnecessary so complicated... ☹