My boyfriend contantly changes our plans with LAST MINUTE to go out with friends and comes in 2+ hours late. How do I tell him to stop?
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YOU will be there when he gets back
THEY will begin to exclude him the more he doesn't drop & run at their call
He has a foot in each boat, not wanting to give up either but also can't allow you into their world... you would find it objectionable... and they would treat you like fresh meat.
Eventually, he will choose you
but this problem needs you to tug on his lease firmly, gently from time-time, in order to help him extract this addiction, begin their process of exclusion (of him). Ergo, you can't allow him safe harbor after pulling such stunts - you have other things to do that night & he will have to be lonely w/no comms until next day.
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