Most Helpful Guy
You have to ask him if your with him he has to understand
Most Helpful Girl
hmm. no i think u have a right to know. what i would suggest is to give it a little more time and c if he will tell u. if not, just bring something relating to it in casual conversation on your next date.
such as 'do you like kids?' for example. in the most absurd way, his response could help u put a few puzzle pieces together. that's the subtle way.
if u do wanna be direct, go for it but remember to be as calm, as casual and as polite as possible about it =] good luck x