Okay, so I've known this guy for a little less than a year. Lately, he's been flirting with me and being more friendly than usual. All of our friends had a bet going that he liked me. Last night I decided to be bold and I told him that I liked him. He responded with, "You're awesome and I'm flattered but I just don't think it would be a good idea. I do think you're a cool person but I don't think you and I would be a good option. And work doesn't really facilitate a positive environment for a relationship." I don't understand why we're not a "good idea/good option" I know his last breakup was really bad and he got really hurt from it. What do you think? Maybe I'm just reading way into things. I think if he just told me that he only saw me as a friend and wasn't interested, it would be easier to move on.
Guys, Do I just need to move on?
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Yeah, you need to move on. It's pretty clear that he is not interested romantically with you. Besides, workplace romances are a HUGE HUGE risk anyway.0
Yes, move on. He's not interested in you that way. He may not have verbalized it the way you would have preferred, but that's the message he's sending.0
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