So I'm dating this girl. I work overseas, so whatever romance comes along, it'll automatically have to be long distance. The girl knows this and she has run hot and cold several times. We meet, make out, hook up or whatever, but afterwards she's distant, cold. One day she says she just wants to be friends, the other she says she doesn't. Then she says she's not ready for a relationship, because of the distance, we end up hooking up, then a week later she's back into "not ready, you live too far away, we should just be friends" mode again. What's up with that?
Girls, is she afraid of long distance or is something else up?
What Girls Said 2
If she knows what's she getting in to before she agrees to date you then it's just her having not thought the situation through properly. Sounds like she just wants all the perks of a relationship without the actual relationship and isn't committed to putting in the effort whilst you're away. Must be hard working overseas, maybe this situation is kind of suitable in a strange way?0
she's really not interested.0
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