I met this girl about 1 year ago and we became good friends. I've started developing feelings for her because we see each other eveyday and we talk almost everyday because we work in the same building. She's really nice and sweet to me and she flirts a lot with me so i guess she kinda likes me as well.
The thing is she's not my type physically. She's not ugly but she's not attractive either. She look cute sometimes depending on what she's wearing but still i don't think she's pretty. My ex girlfriend is really hot so maybe that's why i don't find this girl attractive enough.
She does have an great personality though and she's the only girl right now that actually pays attentions to me and cares about me. I do think about her a lot and miss her so i guess i do like her.
Should i go ahead and ask her out or is it a waste of time?
Will i eventually start liking her physically?
- Ask her outVote A
- Get over her, it will never workVote B
Most Helpful Girl
Looks aren't everything, however, for a relationship to work you would have to be attracted to her physically too because otherwise your sex life is gonna get real bad. Its fine if you are both asexual, but if you're not then, sorry, don't keep your hopes up that you'll start liking her physically.1
Most Helpful Guy
Unless she works on her appearance (if that is even possible), you will not start to like her physically. I really doubt that. As to whether it can still work, no idea. I was in a similar situation once with my first girlfriend. The problem was once it got a bit rougher I did not even mind the relationship falling apart. I did not even try to safe our relationship because I was kinda glad to finally have a way out, without having to tell her I didn't find her that attractive. So from my experience I don't think it will work.0