I met this guy off Match. com. We have been dating since May and things got intimate last week. I asked him what he was looking for and at this point in his life he says wants something casual. I'm bummed since I had previously asked him what he was looking. He had told me his ultimate goal was to find someone to settle with and have a family. Now the story has changed. I told him I didn't want anything casual and have left it at that... I'm a bit disappointed but it is what it is.