I met this woman and we went on a date she tells me "I'm looking for a serious relationship". I just tell her "well I don't really know what I'm looking for whatever happens I guess will happen."
she looks at me "I'm looking for a father figure and stability for my son."
I almost dropped my fork during dinner. Is this insane or she just being very upfront?
Most Helpful Girl
she's being upfront.1
Most Helpful Guy
She's just telling it like it is.
When I divorced, I received custody of my 4 year old son. After the divorce became final, I immediately joined eHarmony. One of the elements of my profile was this line:
"Match must be willing to accept my child as her own."
Any woman that could not say yes to that idea ON PRINCIPLE, before even meeting me, was never matched with me in the first place.
Dating as a single parent can be challenging. You have to seek out your own interests at the same time as you defend the interests of your child.1
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