that crap "you just have to have confidence" "just be yourself" etc. Since people judge the outward appearance instead of the heart for example: Girl sees guys, most ugly, one attractive. ugly guy approaches her she avoids, attractive guy approaches she makes time not only that another scenario attractive guy is approached by her instead. i understand if that unattractive person is undesirable because they don't take care of themselves but the ones that do lets say have nice body but a butterface/buthisface then that advice doesn't not work for everybody. i know it might work to some unattractive people but that advice is mainly for average and above. girls, i know y'all go through the same thing so what does everybody think?
Most Helpful Girl
You kinda just have to keep putting yourself out there. Do feel like a woman owes you her attraction. Because guess what, she doesn't. You have to earn it and if you have a less that attractive face make sure your at the top of your potential in attitude, humor kindness and health. My ex wasn't an attractive guy but I truly found him sexy.0
Most Helpful Guy
People often mistake "just be confident" or "just be yourself"
for "just approach the girl.."
In truth.. what should be done, is to focus on yourself
do what "you" want.. don't seek a relationship, those kinds
of relationships hardly ever last.
No.. seek to advance your career, or improve at your hobbies
have fun with friends, live "your" life.
Also.. if one does seek a partner, that person could at least
make sure to look good beforehand (taking care of themselves)
That, is being confident, that is being yourself.
Love is not found, it is stumbled upon.0