I am 16, almost 17 and haven't had my first kiss. Is this weird?

Question

First of all, I would like to mention that throughout my teen years I always had a lot of problems (and i still have) in real life and I never actually felt ready for a stable relationship that is why I didn't make a lot of contacts with girls and even ignored the ones which wanted to be close to me.

Therefore I think that it will just be too much for me to get into a serious relationship and waste even more nerves than I already do.

I also would like to resolve all my current problems before starting a serious relationship (so it has the effect of a new start) but I feel like it is getting way too late.

Do you guys think I should fix all my problems firstly and then establish a serious relationship as I don't feel ready for such a thing or just go for it without thinking about the rest?

Answer 1

ThatOneDane

Xper 3

Um why are you only considering something serious? I mean that if you are at a party (given you go to such events) and you are having a great time with a girl, you should just do what you want. There is no reason to feel a sense of commitment for doing something like kissing a girl.

And remember, a girlfriend isn't someone who is there just to fix your problems. ^^

Answer 2

psychomonkey | 418 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Explorer

Yoy are not very bright. You don't have to have a serious relationship with a girl when you get close to her. There are these things called friends and she can be one of them.

Asker

+1 y
That's not even linked to my topic lol
psychomonkey

+1 y
You were the one that kept on saying you avoid girls cause you don't want a serious relationship.

Answer 3

Asker

That's not even linked to my topic lol

Answer 4

psychomonkey

You were the one that kept on saying you avoid girls cause you don't want a serious relationship.

Answer 5

Anonymous

If there is a girl you're interested in, you should to talk to her. Just try to have a balance. You don't have to 'fix all your problems' first. I see it as if she truly likes you, she will be there with you through it

Answer 6

throwit | 554 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

No I don't know why so many little kids are worried about never kissing or being virgins lol it's kind of sad that kids think being a virgin at 16 is shameful :/

Answer 7

RJGraveyTrain

Influencer

No, mine was when I was 17.

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COCOCHANEL | 2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

no that's normal. each of us has a different pace.

Answer 9

DarkHumorRUs | 2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Guru

I'm 18 and kissless.

Answer 10

Anonymous

its not weird!

I am 16, almost 17 and haven't had my first kiss. Is this weird?

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