I am 16, almost 17 and haven't had my first kiss. Is this weird?

Dating
First of all, I would like to mention that throughout my teen years I always had a lot of problems (and i still have) in real life and I never actually felt ready for a stable relationship that is why I didn't make a lot of contacts with girls and even ignored the ones which wanted to be close to me.

Therefore I think that it will just be too much for me to get into a serious relationship and waste even more nerves than I already do.

I also would like to resolve all my current problems before starting a serious relationship (so it has the effect of a new start) but I feel like it is getting way too late.

Do you guys think I should fix all my problems firstly and then establish a serious relationship as I don't feel ready for such a thing or just go for it without thinking about the rest?
0|0
53
Next
I am 16, almost 17 and haven't had my first kiss. Is this weird?
5
3
Next

Most Helpful Girl

  • No I don't know why so many little kids are worried about never kissing or being virgins lol it's kind of sad that kids think being a virgin at 16 is shameful :/

    0|0
    0|0

Most Helpful Guy

  • Yoy are not very bright. You don't have to have a serious relationship with a girl when you get close to her. There are these things called friends and she can be one of them.

    0|0
    0|0

    • That's not even linked to my topic lol

      Reply

    • You were the one that kept on saying you avoid girls cause you don't want a serious relationship.

      Reply

Recommended Questions

Can a man fall in love with you after five years? If a guy insisted I give him my number, should I feel obligated to answer his calls? Does trying hard enough get you out of the friendzone? Gentlemen, have you ever hated women but still loved them? Do guys try to impress you because they like you or because they are bored?
Loading...

Have an opinion?

What Girls Said 4

  • No, mine was when I was 17.

    0|0
    0|0

  • no that's normal. each of us has a different pace.

    0|0
    0|0

  • its not weird!

    0|0
    0|0

  • If there is a girl you're interested in, you should to talk to her. Just try to have a balance. You don't have to 'fix all your problems' first. I see it as if she truly likes you, she will be there with you through it

    0|0
    0|0

What Guys Said 2

  • Um why are you only considering something serious? I mean that if you are at a party (given you go to such events) and you are having a great time with a girl, you should just do what you want. There is no reason to feel a sense of commitment for doing something like kissing a girl.

    And remember, a girlfriend isn't someone who is there just to fix your problems. ^^

    0|0
    0|0

  • I'm 18 and kissless.

    0|0
    0|0

Recommended myTakes

My Thoughts About Pickable; The Dating App Disappearing and Reappearing Man? Take Back Your Feminine Power! How The Obesity Epidemic And Fat Acceptance Is Adversely Affecting Dating My Most Desirable Traits In Men That Exasperate Liberals Never settle for less than what you deserve-NEVER!
Home > Dating > I am 16, almost 17 and haven't had my first kiss. Is this weird?
Loading...