She started acussing me that I was a drunkard out of nowhere. I told her that a few of my colleagues got drunk and starting talking about existential questions and funny stuff which was really amusing.
After that she would constantly nit pick anything that I did. From time to time she would call me childlish. Eventually I started fighting back and defending myself. Things went smoothly after that for a while.
But eventually she started getting bored or appearing more and more disinterested. But it was the same things that worked in the begining, the same kind of jokes and things with some variation. I was getting the feeling that I was spoiling her too much.
So I asked her 3 times to go out but she made crappy excuses so I quit asking her out and told her that she would have to ask me otherwise I won't ask her out. Which seemed fair to me.
A week went past and she started talking to me and hinting that she wanted to go out with me. I knew that she wanted to go out with me but after all the stuff that she did I considered that it is her responsibilty and the mature thing to do. So I ignored her signals and pretended not to notice them.
By that time I was the only one initiating everything, while in the begining it was around 50/50. This wasn't going in a direction I wanted it. I didn't go through all the trouble with her just for her to put me do everything for her and to her start changing the rules as she wanted.
So I just stopped contacting her. It took her two weeks to contact me back. That's a lot of time and when she contacted me I said to her that it took her long enough and that she had forgotten completely. She turned it back and said that I was the one that forgot about her. But I was the one that would always initiate, if I didn't initiate she would do nothing.
She told me that if I ever wanted to see her that I would need to invite her. What's the deal here?
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She's crazy and controlling-You're way too nice and too easy to control and give explanations too easily. When you're dating a girl; I personally don't believe they should be trying to adjust your lifestyle choices. It's simply non of their business; they are just a girlfriend. She seems like she just likes the attention.