Most Helpful Guy
Suggest ideas don't force him you have the most influence in his life. Just throw out ideas. Cause the most harmful words a girlfriend can say is she's "getting bored".
Most Helpful Girl
Plan a date and take him out. Then he'll reciprocate or he won't and you can decide if you feel like this is the kind of relationship you want,
For me I prefer hsjging out alone making out and falling alert together bit I know most orople like to go out. I like going out on my own when I'm with a guy I like bring alone.
Anyhow dating while you're dating is important to you. So mske it happen and see if you guys are on the same wavelength or if you have to reevaluate things.
Good luck. :)