This is the third time this happens to me. Each time it gets harder to open up to someone new...
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Future Lessons learned from the past that was not a blast here, Dear: Don't wear your heart on your sleeve in case they may leave.
Feel them out more before you may find out what their motive in mind is. Many of today's toms may be doing this as just another Addition to the Other things at the top of their list such as growing cold duck feet in running back into their murky water as in Realizing there may be A... Commitment.
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