Most Helpful Girl
You should be questioning why you've been seeing him for a year but you're not official. Why are you still seeing him when he says he doesn't want to be with you? He's just using you for sex or as a friends with benefits it seems. He can't be getting upset and feel betrayal if you're not together, you can sleep with anyone. Maybe if you became official, it would work out better. If not, stop seeing each other!