I don't want to ruin a good thing with fear from the past. How do I overcome this and not be overcome by this fear of getting hurt. He is a really good guy.
- Tell him I feel afraid of getting hurt.Vote A
- Don't tell him I am afraid of getting hurt?Vote B
Most Helpful Guy
Then your not ready obviously. Take it slow, but if you are afraid of getting hurt then why even date a guy period? The time of healing is not for dating but to focus on moving on and bettering yourself. But thats none of my business.1
Most Helpful Girl
Say it in a calm and logical way. Don't come a rooms as a scary cat. Be mature about it1