I've been talking to this guy, we get along great and planning to meet up. But we live like 50 miles apart.
Isit okay if i go to him or if he comes to me? Or we meet in the middle?
Most Helpful Guy
Meeting in the middle and in public is by far the best choice. It's the only really safe choice. You really don't want to be going over someone's house the first time you meet someone from the internet offline. What if he's some dangerous criminal in disguise? The first time you're meeting someone from the internet in real life, it should always be in a public place. This clears up any safety issues and also etiquette-wise, it's also the most sound choice (since you are just starting to date).
And of course you should meet about half-way because that's only fair, especially for just a "first meet".
Most Helpful Girl
I went all the way to my boyfriend's house the first time, but I had someone with me (my stepdad) just in case. Be safe. Hope the best for you <3