Why doesn't he just commit?
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Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
It seems like he's torn: he has a perfect setup where you guys meet up and have sex without any real strings attached, but in doing so he's clearly formed some feelings. He's probably scared of the idea of things getting serious, since that comes with expectations and inevitable changes, yet he doesn't like the idea that if he doesn't become exclusive with you, that you could eventually disappear. I would just say that if you want him to commit you need to stop just giving it up every time you guys hang out; if it's all about sex, that's all it'll ever be until something changes.
He is telling you what you want to hear, just get sex from you without putting in the work. There is a true saying if a man can get the milk without buying the cow why buy the cow.
He is still trying to find himself and he is not ready for a real relationship with you, also has he called you his girlfriend and provided for you outside of the sex room?
Four words Profess his love for you. Protect you. Pronounced meaning given you a title. Provide for you in some way.
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