I like a girl but there are two things that are keeping me away from making a move:
1) She is snobby and I am not.
2) She has serious family problems that I would never want to get involved with. Plus, just hearing about her problems makes me sad. So i cannot imagine her problems to become a part of my life (IF we get in a relationship).
Are these two reasons legit for me to forget about her and move on?
Most Helpful Girl
Depends on how severe they are. Her being snobby might just be a defense mechanism due to her family issues. And apparently she isn't constantly snobby. Get to know her a bit better and see if it's really worth it.
If you do get together you could always tell her that you'll be there for her but that she should take up the really bad family issues with an actual therapist. That is truly what she should do, she can't expect all of her friends and her boyfriend to be her emotional tampons when shit truly hits the fan, that's something only a professional is well equipped to handle.0
Most Helpful Guy
Both are significant issues. I'm to the point where I really have to question whether or not to date a girl from a single parent family or a mother that remarried a ton of times. Most of the girls I've dated like this have issues with understanding the concept of loyalty or the value of money. My exfiancee's mom and step father treated her like shit when we went to visit, never again will I let a family do that to their daughter in front of me. We'll be "going to get a drink" and getting in the car and leaving if that shit happens. Which is what I told her to do when we were there and it was happening but she cried all the way home, never fucking again.0