Okay so there's this one girl who is quite the epitome of the wallflower - never gets drunk, doesn't go clubbing, likes quiet nights in, mega happy and cheerful and kind etc. She's a bit.. I dunno' 'spacey', like, socially awkward and I could believe it if someone told me she has aspergers too like. Well I sometimes give her a lift out to socials and back to her halls and that, and the last time she talked loads and gave me loads of info about herself and her family and stuff, and then when I dropped her off she like looked at me with a big smile and said in.. maybe a kinda' bashful way a little bit "okay, well see you whenever".
I don't know how to read social situations but I think I did the right thing by not going for a kiss then because we haven't known each other long and it felt too soon, and with risk (potentially ruining the friendship in a moment of misunderstanding) outweighing potential gain at this point, due to uncertainty.
if it helps I sometimes call her a nickname I made up for her, and like teased her about zoning out to adverts on the television. I've read before now that some girls like that, or that it's a sign that a guy thinks she's cute or whatever, which I do. She didn't get annoyed with me so that's cool I suppose.
So what do you think of what has happened so far? Also, I've started texting her a fair bit, and well she talks loads more in person than in text. Just wondering if I should maybe see if she would let me hang out in her flat some time, by text so it's quite casual? Also considered calling her and asking if she'd like to go out into town sometime, just to hang out to start with.