lol let me just close my eyes and telepathically access ur personality to tell u why.huuuummmmm...
Well honestly I'm just looking for a way now to block it out of my head I have aspergers syndrome I don't understand dating or what women do they never flirt and I just wanna forget about relationships
thing is, it's hard to tell without knowing who u r. not many guys understand dating and women tbh, even if they seem confident. if u wanna forget about relationships, y are u wondering y ur friend material?
Cause it was kinda before I gave up I can admit I lack what it takes to get a girlfriend every girl I get close with just wants to be friends I'm too nice
Have an opinion?
Maybe, depends on different situations
LIke what situations and if I don't have the traits to be a boyfriend how do I forget relationships and block it out of my head
Try to get along with the girls and then go into a relationship with one of them that might like you.
I have heard once your friends with a girl she no longer considers you dating material and just sees you as a friend I'm 24 I have aspergers syndrome never had a girlfriend I don't understand none of the things required to get or keep a girlfriend I've never had sex. Maybe it's just not in the cards for me not trying to sound depressing but realistic
Have them as friends then as girlfriends, don't rush it.
Get to know a person better first.
Did you overlook the part where I said I'm autistic I process things differently and it's frustrating I just wanna forget it like I said even if by some miracle I did get a girlfriend I probably couldn't keep her
Sooner or later, you will meet someone. Having the correct time, you will meet someone, just watch.
I don't want that I just want the thought and idea to go away like a dream that's not real
Then, if you get a girl and you need to get to know her better, and take the time to tell her about your disease after you are in a relationship with her.
No your not understanding I don't want a girl and I want the thought of needing her or a relationship to go away like a bad dream
And also girls don't date autistic guys
If you act normal and look, then girls will date you.
The thought of a relationship can leave, you can focus on other things. Like traveling, school, job, etc.
I focus on my job like crazy I strive to be the best and I'm currently looking into nursing school but the idea of a relationship keeps popping into my head
Relationships, not good. People go out and then break up. They don't last. Relationships might seem nice, but they are not good most of the time.
Exactly which is why I wanna quit thinking about them I constantly see couples holding hands, kissing outside and it makes me wanna throw up
Then, stop thinking about relationships then.
It's not that easy because when I ask other people they say it's impossible because it's a human need
I understand, but the best thing to do is just to ignore sometimes. Even, if you desire it, it takes two people to build a relationship, not one.
Well I wanted it before but being 24 and being ugly I don't see things changing and it has changed me into not wanting a relationship and making me really bitter. Whenever I see people kidding hugging or holding hands I wanna throw up I also get the urge to cuss them out
Wow, that is rough. Not being a relationship, means no responsibilities, no fighting, no agruements, no jealousy, no over protection, no exs, no negative stuff. You have your freedom and you are allow to do whatever you want with any one telling you what to do or say.
But part of me wants to really love and care for a girl
Sometimes you want to and sometimes not, and that is a reason why so many couples break up. First they want to go out and then they want don't.
No Its not some temporary thing I want something that would turn into marriage what makes matters worse is I'm kinda a hopeless romantic
That is why you have to have time to meet the correct person, and work on your romatic skills. Before thinking about marriage, think about how to meet the right person first.
Well I personally believe I'm too ugly and physical attraction is a huge part of finding any girl
It doesn't matter, most of the time, everyone gets marry, have kids, and turns old. People change.
No in order for a relationship to work a girl has to be physically attracted to yoh personality only gets you so far. Sexual attraction stems from physical attraction and with neither one of those the relationship will die
Yeah, sometimes is physical and personally attraction, and also depends on how they know the person well.
https://imgur.com/df0Lz6V I would like your honest opinion about how i look cause I may be worried about nothing but I have really low self esteem
You look fine, you will find someone. You just have talk to some girls.
I'm scared though
You can talk to them, just make conversations happen. Be outgoing and funn, girls like that.
So I look Nirmal I don't look like a caveman or anything
You will to do fine, you look normal.
Though it would be bonus points in my favor if I was kinda hot
You will, but you have to meet the person first.
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