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First of all: you'very been dating for 10 months and you're ALREADY talking about marrige? Slow down a bit. Second: it's his choice whether you understand or not. I don't mean to sound harsh here, but I'm just being bluntly honest. I went through a similar situation, but I'm younger so marriage wasn't in the problem. I have huge plans for a military career, and the military life doesn't exactly make room for relationships. This and some other problems cause me to break up with my ex who I dated for 2 years. You may love eachother, but when a relationship gets in the way of someone's goals in life, it causes serious problems.