Are there any signals, behaviors, or body language that may help me decipher whether or not the guys around girls all night are their boyfriends, their dates, or just guys at the bar trying to get lucky with them? A lot of times I will see 3 or 4 girls with the same pack of 5 or 6 guys hovering around them all night, everywhere they go. But at the end of the night the girls will all leave to go home and the guys will stay and start trying to move on to other chicks to hit on. But to me, they all look like they're all boyfriend & girlfriend. Also, I have a cousin who is in college who told me if you see a big group of people who are in their early 20s/college age, who all enter together and stay together as a group the entire night, often times these people are actually all singles hoping to meet someone. But to the casual observer, you would never know that. While these groups are all aware that they are just 8 or 9 single men & women who came out together as friends, to me they just look like a bunch of couples instead. So, are there any tips you can give to help me decipher whether the guys hovering around them all night are actually their dates or boyfriends, or just other single guys from the bar who are just bothering them by this point and these girls would actually welcome someone new approaching them?
Girls, How Can I Tell If You're Single or With Someone At A Bar or Club?
What Girls Said 1
Yes: assume they're single unless it's clear they're not. Because it's pretty much impossible to tell sometimes, and you only limit your options by assuming they have a boyfriend already. It's better to just reach out if you're interested in someone and find out for yourself. As long as you're respectful, shouldn't cause any problems.0
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