Most Helpful Girl
Personality is the most important, but you're also right, if you don't have something attractive about you (to her) then she won't want to get to know you romantically.
I don't see why this is news. This is how you feel about women, no? Attraction is what separates friends from significant others.
That being said, you don't have to have height, looks, money and car to get a woman to be attracted to you. It's just a matter of having something she's attracted to.
Most Helpful Guy
"How is a guy supposed to get his foot in the door " HAHAHAH that is why you become friends with __ #1st so she can get a chance to see your personality + fall in love with it. Not approach her hon that "AYE BABY GIRL LET ME GET YO #" type BS because if she doesn't find you physically attractive... well you've just written yourself off right there and then #NeverFails ^_^.