I always wonder why don't I get asked out? I'm not trying to be conceited or anything but I always been called beautiful and very attractive by friends and strangers and I've been told that I should become a model. But guys never ask me out. I once told a friend that I rarely get approach by guys and she said maybe because they are intimidated by me which I found funny because at times I do make an effort to smile a bit to come of more open. Also I'm very nice to everyone I meet I love to laugh and be goofy also I love to dress up.
Im just tried of being single. I'm 20 and never had a boyfriend or been on a real date. And I've been open to interracial dating.
Most Helpful Guy
Well the top reasons are
1) Guys are intimidated by you
2) You dont seem to be open enough for approach
3) You dont give off a positive vibe
4) You are not interesting enough
Well you sure do look good, so I dont think that looks are a problem. Do you try to carry the conversation forward? Even though you might be smiling and all.. if you dont put much effort into it and expect the guy to do everything, they'll not ask you out. I sure won't. Many girls have this habit of giving one word answers and not asking questions. I can help identify the problem if I get some more details eg, a recent conversation or so.1
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Most Helpful Girl
I get asked out a lot only because I look kinda 'submissive' and shy.
If you are the center of attention by making people laugh, they might feel pressure or not get the chance to approach you as you are surrounded by your friends.
If you really want to get asked out, start hanging out on your own a bit more. Walk places instead or use public transport. Dress nicely at all times.
Have your hair out your face and clothes that aren't revealing but enhance your assets.
I've started noticing patterns and get asked out daily on the days I do this.
Hope I could help!0