So this guy initiated flirting. I know him through freinds. He sent me flowers and said things like ill love him one day etc. I went to visit with freind to help him move in with him. Mind you he lives in another state. The week was amazing he treated me like a girlfriend taking me to dinners, buying things, kisses everything calling me babe etc. It was like we were together. I helped him clean his dressers and such and he said things like he will make space for my stuff. Well my last day i said we can try something if he wanted. He said he wasn't ready. Friend told me he was cheated on in past and he told me he doesn't trust easily. I went home and things started good texting everyday. goodnights and good mornings and thrugh the day. I sent a thank you gift he loved it and what not. well as the weeks went on i was the one initiating the texts. He responded fast but i still did. which i didn't mind. I thought maybe since he inittiated first wanted to see if i was actually uhm going to make an effort now that i was home not sure. We also talked sexual a lot iover texts and he always says he wishes he was here. I also know he uses tiinder for the casual hookup. Just sex and nothing like it was between us. I sort of stopped contacting him for a few days to see if anything, and then contacted him and he answered he was just busy. I know he is since he's a realtor and he's always on phone with work etc so i gave benifit of doubt. I posted a pic on ig the other night he liked it and then finally texted me asking if i was playign poker without him. Hi initiated and then i initiated yesterday and talked until bed. What could be going on? does it sound like he's interested or what from a guys opinion and what should i do? Could he just not be ready and sort of scared or something else. Help!!!
Guys, what do I do with him, possibility for us?
What Guys Said 2
He's probably testing you like you do him. That's why it looks weird. There is a simple thing you can do to remove all that weirdness and uncertainty. Just tell him how you feel and ask him what's going on. Is he interested in you? Yes? Then he should act like it. No? Then he should stop wasting your time... You should stop playing games too. I understand he's been hurt before, but he either wants this or he doesn't. You can't play love without burning yourself once in a while.0
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Yes, he does sound interested. Did you ever take him out to dinner while you were in his state?0
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