Alright so im really annoyed right now and i need to vent. My boyfriend and i are both 25 and have been going out for 4 years. He recently moved out of his parent's house into his own house well once my student loans are paid off i plan on moving in with him.. well om having issues with my parents so i asked him if i could move in with him sooner for cheap rent for a little while because things are really bad at my parents right now and obviously he knowa all the details. Well he said no. Well his parents divorced like a month ago and his mom has no place to go so she is moving in with my boyfriend. It realllllly hurt me to the core that she is living there rent free because of a bad situation she is in but his own girlfriend of 4 yeara mind you that he is serious with and wants to eventually marry is in a bad situation and he says no to me. Like dude wtf? I just feel like this is a big sign that something is wrong in thw relationship if he isn't willing to help me out when im down but will for other people. I work ft so its not like im. mooching off of him. I thought part of being in a relationship is being there for your partner when times are tough and to me this is a sneak peak of what our future will be like if he isn't willing to help me out. Should i break up with him or try and work this major issue out first?
Should I talk it out first?
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