I'm 18and he's is 35 ?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes it's extremely weird. But a lot of things are weird and harmless. This however is rarely one of those things. Generally speaking older guys (and women) who date people significantly younger than them do it because for some reason they won't or can't date someone their own age and I've never heard an excuse for that that didn't sound creepy, crazy, or cruel. But it's your life. In all honesty I think you already knew something was off before you even asked.3
Most Helpful Girl
It is sorta bizarre, because in most cases where the girl is barely legal and the guy is like twice her age, the guy is usually just using her, cause let's be real, why would a 35 y/o man be genuinely interested in an 18 y/o girl? They're in completely different places in life. That being said, maybe your situation is different and it's actually sincere. As long as it's legal, it's fine.7
- Show AllShow Less