I typically date girls from 22-30 age group my ex was 25 I'm 27 and this 18 year old girl asked me out, she knows my age. I know she's a good girl but I'm not sure if I should date her cause of age. Most girls I date my age already have kids and got sterilized in my country and I want to have my own kids in the future so I have to dig for younger girls but I'm not sure if this can work out.
she's very mature for her age goess to college and works, thinks the world of me (we known each other for a long time) soo I don't know
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It's not morally wrong, as she's legal, but you will probably be vastly different in maturity and life experiences. Where a lot of guys go wrong is picking a much younger girl for looks and then being a total jerk to her about her interests and mentality because she doesn't act his age.0
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I like to stick to the half your age plus 7 rule. Is it perfect? no. But it is a good guideline.
It depends why he is dating her. People who like to date those that much younger than them often do it because they
-want to seem interesting because by comparison the 18 year old those girls might hang out with are boring by comparison.
-have a power complex and dating someone significantly younger than them makes them feel like they can more easily manipulate them since they would be inexperienced.
Girls often date older guys (im guessing) because
-they are turned off by the inexperience of guys their own age
-they are attracted to men with more means and money than those still under 21.
I don't know your friend but if they seem to be going about it the right way (not bullying each other into sex or coercing the other into buying each other things, or belittling the other) then it isn't that much of a problem to me.0