Most people think I'm kind of funny and like my personality. My boyfriend recently told me he disagrees with me and puts me down out of spite. It sucks because when I'm just being me he rejects me.
I'm a great cook and I clean, he reinforces these behaviors. But when I'm being goofy which is the heart of who I am he rejects me. Lately I've been acting dumb just to see how he would take it and he loves it. But when I'm me he gets cold.
He's the only person that reacts that way to my personality. Why is he even with me?
Most Helpful Guy
No, i never pretend to hate or dislike things my so says. If it's coming out of me like that it's because she is getting on my nerves and I'm just not able to contain it. When I get to that point I'm not much longer in the relationship.1
Most Helpful Girl
I think the better question should be, why are you with him? I've never realized how goofy I was until being in a relationship with my boyfriend. Most people have seen a good portion of who I am, but not really the whole package. I have to say being with someone who accepts, admires, and adores the things that make up you is one of the most liberating, and freeing things I can think of. It's amazing to be fully accepted and knowing that you're loved for it no matter how weird, or crazy, or sloppy you are. You deserve better dear, if you can't be yourself and he can't be happy with that aspect of you then he is incapable of giving you complete love. Talk to him about it and reevaluate the relationship you are in. If he can't get over it then he needs to find someone he's more compatible for and you need to do the same. You shouldn't be put down and belittled for having a different colored soul than his.1