How do I help my icy cold boyfriend move past our first big fight?

We had our first real fight (almost a year together) a few days ago, and at first he wouldn't talk to me. I understood his need for space and let him be so he could cool down. He's texted me a few times since, and once I asked him straight up if he wants to get past this and keep our relationship going to which he said he did. But it's been 3 days and he's still very icy cold to me.

He agreed to see me this evening, but I feel like I don't even know what to do! I just want things to be how they were before. How do I help him move past this?


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  • He needs to be aware of what he is really mad about, and that may be different than what he currently thinks he is mad about. Maybe he is feeling trapped and wants out. You need to know the real reason for his anger. . . and so does he.


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