Is it possible to get a girlfriend without trying?

By trying I mean going up to every girl you like with an approach, even if they give you NO signs. The only times I ever try to approch is if there are signs she finds me attractive, eye contact or maybe she initiates conversation which doesn't happen that often at all or I miss it. Either way, I don't approach a lot. Am I selling myself short?


Most Helpful Girl

  • Yeah dude don't do that, don't be that guy. I makes women SOOO uncomfortable. Maybe even she would have liked you but not when you do that.


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  • It is possible for EXTREMELY good looking men, because some women approach these women themselves. And both my previous exes approached me themselves, although I was a fat, unattractive slob at that time.

    So it is a huge gamble, but SOMETIMES it does happen!


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