I never know how to turn down a guy. If you say no, they get upset, if you say nothing they get upset. Usually saying "I have a boyfriend" works, but now I keep hearing "We can be friends!"
I don't have a boyfriend but I don't want one right now, I don't want sex right now either. I'm going through a lot right now and I think I could easily make bad decisions based off my emotions and instead of involving someone in my shit, I would rather be alone right now.
However, I'm not explaining that to a random guy off the street.
So guys, what's the best way to turn someone down?
Most Helpful Guy
Go to walmart and buy a fifty dollar wedding band, heh. If you get the "we can be friends" line, just say "not with my husband!" Smile and walk away! If the guy is being pushy like that anyway then dont worry about hurting his feelings, if he was interested in yours he wouldn't be pushy!
... you could always tell him you're gay! ... or, reach down and scratch yourself and say "dude, I'm hung better than you are, but hey, If you swing that way..." ;)1
Most Helpful Girl
"I don't have a boyfriend but I don't want one right now,... I'm going through a lot right now" <--- I know I'm not a guy, but I think this might be your answer. You already said it. I think it's fair to say this, and it's honest... and it doesn't sound hurtful, because everyone can empathize what a tough time feels like.0