My girlfriend basically friendzoned this guy from her job, he really liked her and they dated a couple of times. We started dating and have been living together for a year. She still works with the guy but has had no contact with him outside of work, she actually told me he was just ignoring her at work. The other day I looked at her phone and noticed she texted him and wanted to know why he didn't wish her a happy birthday. Then I saw another one from a couple of days later when she texted him at like 12am basically trying to tell a joke or something. He didn't text back either time. Im just wondering why she is doing this, I mean, if you know the guy probobly likes you, why are you texting him? It just makes me think she's not really committed to me. Is this a bad sign or nothing?
Is this a bad sign?
What Girls Said 1
Not a good thing. She's looking for attention and an easy way to get it is from someone she knows has a crush. It's not cheating, yet, but I'd be careful. People who aren't happy with the relationship attention tend to be the ones who look to cheat.1
What Guys Said 1
"It just makes me think she's not really committed to me."
Because she's not. As has been said, she's looking for attention from a plan B in case she doesn't like you.0
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