How do I work up the nerve to make the first move?

How do I work up the nerve to make the first move with the guy I like?

  • Just do it! You'll regret much more not doing something.
    Vote A
  • Plan it out carefully
    Vote B
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Just do it.

    One for the money, and two for the show
    I love you honey, I'm ready, I'm ready to go
    How did you get that way? I don't know
    You're screwed up and brilliant,
    Look like a million dollar man,
    So why is my heart broke?
    You got the world but baby at what price?
    Something so strange, hard to define
    It isn't that hard boy to like you or love you
    I'd follow you down down down,
    You're unbelievable


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What Guys Said 4

  • You just have to do it. You take too much time thinking which gives you so many ideas on how it 'could' go wrong.

    You need to just push yourself. The moment you see him go up to him and say 'hi.' If you wait more than 3 seconds then you've already wasted too much time.

  • As the poll suggests, guys tend to prefer when girls just go for it. Waiting too long may make him think you aren't interested.

  • Be chill, and do something easy like "Hey, wanna catch lunch?" Or "Hey, wanna see that new movie?"

  • Tequila or just do it

    • maybe both!

    • Remember just enough to ask you don't want to think it's just a drunkinfew idea

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