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We went on a date with this girl and we've been flirting in the summer. So, i know she's at least somewhat interested. But, at the end of the date when we were splitting up, i asked her if we'd meet again and she said yes. She said yes then I starting walking the other direction. Right after it she added "if you're not busy" and i didn't completely turned to her, just made a gesture to say "not really". Now, it was a very good chance of creating a romantic environment, i could go like "even if i'm busy, i'd like to see you" or somethnig like that, but i couldn't think of it at that moment. I texted her yesterday and she said she was dealing with a homework. WHen i said i shouldn't keep her then, she said okay and the conversation just ended.
Now, i know the ending of our date (splitting up) was really bad, but it's not a dealbreaker right? She was simply busy yesterday, it's not like she lost interest in me because the ending was not as good as it could have been? I'm really insecure about this, please give me some advice.
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I agonized a fair bit over how often to contact the girl I'm seeing at first. If you think she's not comfortable with it, then wait another day or two. If you're uncomfortable but she hasn't shown any signs of discomfort with you, then don't wait. It wasn't easy for me to swallow my fears, but nobody ever gets through this process without being a little brave.0