I shouldn't laugh but can't help it,
I've dabbled in the weird and wonderful world of online dating, everyone is so fake, only want sex, plain weird, to old, to young or Want to wear my tights! The one date I managed to pull together that I felt interested in to meet the man turned out to be my ex pretending to be someone else, thankfully didn't meet him i would have punched his face in.
Im thinking its me, am I undateable that these men in the online dating world, don't see me as girlfriend material?
I'm so shy that in person if I'm approached by a male in a bar or club that is interested in me I literally hide in the toilets all evening. looking at ways to boost my confidence to be comfortable round the opposite sex even if it doesn't land me a partner it sure beats sitting on a toilet all night staring at my feet lol
So any tips or suggestions would be gratefully received.
Tips and advice?
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Do you think if you understand men better and what they want it would make you a little less nervous? Not all guys are the same I had the exact same problem and I read a book it helped me so much. I keep recommending it here because all the questions I see can be helped with it. The main idea is for men to respect you. Not to think you're too high maintenance or too psychotic followed up by too needy and insecure. You also don't want to come across too independent and confident either. It helped me find the middle ground the right amount of praise confidence etc - the book is why men love bitches and not bitch in the term we use it. I found it brilliant and so have friends0
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