Interested to see if girls and guys generally have similar expectations or desires for a first date.
So what is your idea of a good first date?
I personally always tried to keep physical intimacy (kissing, sex, etc) out of a first date so it didn't cloud my judgment of our other connections (or disconnections)
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He picks me up at my house. We dress nice. He brings me one flower. We go out to dinner at a nice place, it doesn't have to be expensive.
He opens the car door for me and opens it when i get out. He opens the restaurant door and pulls out my chair. We sit and talk 2 to 3 hours over dinner AND he can ask "probing" questions, not shallow stuff like did you like the weather today?
No movie afterwards. He drives me home, he doesn't try to kiss me, and he calls the next day to see if I want to go out again.
What I usually get is a cheap dinner and we go to the drivein. We don't talk much, he makes a move on me, my stupid "body" takes over and wants him to kiss me, we end up making out, and either have sex at the drivein or i make him stop on the way home and he fucks my brains out.
We go out for maybe six months tops, having sex everytime, sometimes more than once, he gets me drunk and sometimes stoned/wasted and after a couple months he finds some girl with bigger breasts, nicer/sexier hips, and a killer butt and i get dumped.
I go through major rebound, hook up with a loser, get dumped, get depressed. and repeat it all over again with another loser that only sses me basically as a semen recepticle and "arm candy" of the moment.
I can say now that my current boyfriend is going to be my husband coz we actually are right for each other and have been together 7 months. He has even had some fertility surgery done 2 times for me!2