Why do I push men away? Or make them ' Go ghost '?

I'm so so Sooooo tired of trying to date!! I beat myself up religiously because I can't figure out what drives men away. I'm sick of hearing how crazy it is how I'm not drowning in men or my soul mate is around the corner. Every time I try to be just friends with a awesome guy, we get to talking, AND MAYBE we hang out ( if he doesn't disappear before then ) but then POOF! Like a magic act I'm left wondering how I made him vanish. I'm clean, I live on my own, I have a car, I have a job so it's not like I'm a dirty leech!! Maybe I talk too much? When you go months or a whole year without ANY male attention , tell you wouldn't be overflowing with bubbly excitement as well? Maybe it's my color? But hell even black men won't date this black girl! Point is all I do is bottle it up and pretend like I don't care because no one wants to hear about my misery. Why have I been cursed?


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